Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Here We Go Again..!-

It appears that when we last spoke, I was all set to leave the boondocks and return to my beloved Wellington.

It's been a crazy nine months, and I'm happy to report that I'm still living in the city again.  Moe has settled in well, and feels that this was a stellar move by the both of us so everything seems to have worked out well.

We have a small but fabulous house right by the ocean (which, we've discovered, he's absolutely afraid of).  We're also lucky enough to have a pretty good cafe, a fish and chip shop, and a REALLY good local mini-mart all within a minutes walk from our door, so life is good.

There's lots going on this year, and we're currently both in goal-setting mode.  Right now, I've just finished tackling a new budgeting plan (the joys of a monthly pay cycle), and have listed some short term goals to complete within three and six month time frames.

A couple of big events are also on the table this year.  Granddad is turning 80 in a few weeks, so there's a road trip in the works.  We've also got tickets to Black Sabbath, who are playing at Vector Arena in April.  I heard this morning that Shihad will be a supporting act, which is fantastic because I was too busy face-planting in a paddock when they were on stage at ACDC a few years back and I missed out on seeing them.

Moe and I hope to keep in touch more often now that things are finally back on track.  We'll keep you updated on how our goals are going, and start sharing photos and reviews with you again in the coming weeks.

For now, let us both just say "Happy New Year!", and good luck with everything you're tackling in 2013.


Lots of love,

Moe & Me
xox

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Food (Without a Body Count...)

I'm a bit of a baker, of sorts.  I find it relaxing, and a great distraction from the everyday stress that life brings.  It is also a great cure for living in the boondocks - when there's nothing to do (and there's always nothing to do), bake.

However, I've never been much good at cooking.  Some people scoff at that statement, but I can assure you that there is a HUGE difference between baking and cooking.

Most of the food I eat comes in the form of things that don't require actual cooking.  Salad: Put raw veges in a bowl and grab a fork.  Simple.  Or I opt for something slightly more complex...  Soup for One:  Open can, pour contents into bowl, microwave on high for two minutes, grab spoon.  Almost simple.

Any time that I've attempted to cook an actual meal, something has usually gone horribly wrong.  I've perfected the art of setting tea towels on fire.  I'm highly skilled in the area of 'Burnt on the outside, frozen in the middle...".  I've even shattered a microwave-safe plate, microwaving something (which also killed my microwave completely).  There is a photo album on my facebook page that is devoted entirely to cooking related burns and cuts that I've given myself.  My last flatmate banned me from using the oven unless she was home to supervise.

I blame this largely on my mother (as is usually the case with any child).  Though a general lack of funds also factors in as well.  My cupboards and fridge/freezer usually contain coffee beans, tea bags, a tray of eggs, milk, several boxes of hashbrowns, and a bag of frozen peas.  The peas are generally more of an ice pack, rather than something I eat.  I fall down a lot.  

When I was young, my mother didn't teach me the art of cooking for one.  I could make a roast that would feed six, but I still have no idea how to produce mince on toast.  Not that I ever eat mince outside of the realm of Nachos, but that's beside the point.  Basic cooking skills elude me.

For the last year, cooking duties have fallen on me.  Breakfast and lunch requires all in the household to fend for themselves, however every night I am required to produce a meal for all of us.  This has meant that for the majority of the last year, evening meals have consisted of either salad or mini roasties, and some sort of grilled meat.  Chicken pieces and salad.  Lamb chops and mini roasties.  Salad and fish.  Steak and salad.  Steak and mini roasties...  You get the idea.  A couple of weeks ago, my mother flipped out and had a melt down.  She couldn't take any more salad.  I was firmly in that camp, right by her side.  We binged on cheese on toast.  And then she purchased some cook books.

I own countless cookbooks.  I love cookbooks.  I flip through them, wondering what each meal tastes like, drooling over the pictures of food like they're Sean Bean shirtless.  Then I put them in a kitchen draw, and heat up a can of soup.

Not this time though.  This time, with a fridge and pantry full of ingredients I have been assigned the task of cooking some actual meals.  And I have!  I've even eaten eggplant for the first time in memory.  What's more amazing, is that I've actually enjoyed cooking.  And people are not dying mysteriously in the night, or throwing up with food poisoning.  I haven't set any tea towels on fire (though I suspect this is because my mother's kitchen has a ceramic hobb, making fire almost impossible to achieve.).  I've made Carbonara from scratch.  I've made basic ratatouille.  People are looking forward to tea time.  So naturally we had lamb chops and salad last night...

Ok, so the cooking buzz isn't a permanent change - one must never forget their Canned Soup roots.  However tonight I shall attempt to use puff pastry - pre-rolled sheets of course, lets not go overboard here by making our own.

Spinach and Ricotta Quiche.  Another bunch of firsts for me - I've never had ricotta cheese (as far as I know), and I've never made a quiche.  I'm not sure what I'll serve it with, probably some salad on the side...

;-)

Monday, March 5, 2012

Catching Up

It's been a very slow year for me, in terms of reading.  When I left Wellington, I packed up half of the books that I had in my "to read" pile.  So far I have only read three of them...

I blame this entirely on Wilbur Smith's "The Quest".  I started the Taita series approximately ten years ago, when a friend's father was clearing out some old books of his.  He had the first two in the series (River God, and The Seventh Scroll) and I loved them.  Several years later I found out that there had been a third book released (Warlock), and sought that out too.

At that point I thought I was done with Taita, but no.  A year or two later, I saw someone reading The Quest and enquired about it.  Yes, there was a fourth book in the series.

This fourth book has pushed me to the limits.  I am now on my fourth attempt at reading it - it was so difficult to get in to.  I am now about half way through it, and it's finally starting to get enjoyable.  Most people have suggested that if it's that hard, then it's not really worth it.  I personally think that's crap - why would I go through all of these books just to quit before I find out how they end?  It's not "too hard", it's "challenging", and my lazy brain very much needs that right now.

It doesn't help that I keep buying more books.  A couple of weeks ago an Anne Rice and two Neil Gaiman's (one co-written with Terry Pratchett) showed up.  Today I've ordered a trilogy box set of The Hunger Games...

It's not like me to be reading one book alone, so these new arrivals are a terrible distraction.  Usually I have several books on the go, and tend to leave them all over the house.  One by my bed for night reading.  One on the couch for sloth TV watching.  One in my bag for train/bus reading (though there is no public transport in the boondocks).  One in the sun room.  One by the back door for reading in the sun on the back steps...  They're all usually different genres - a bit of horror, a bit of drama, a comedy, some sort of legal thriller and so on.  I like variety.  I don't like to be bound to one thing, because my mood changes so frequently throughout the day.  So committing myself to Taita, and Taita alone, is not helping with the struggle at all.

As I said though, the story is finally becoming enjoyable and my reading pace is picking up.  Now that I'm "in", I imagine it wont be long before I'm finished, and can move on to something else in the "to read" pile that my eyes keep drifting to...



Monday, February 27, 2012

February

February:  the month my family always seems to get dealt a crap hand.  This year was certainly no exception to the rule, in a very long history of awful Februaries.

However, I have managed to achieve some positives as well.  While they don't even come close to outweighing the tragedy that we've been through, they've certainly helped me keep my head on straight, and stay grounded and focused on the positives.

I have started applying for jobs at the other end of the Island.  Yes.  I have finally started to make some REAL moves towards getting home again.  I miss Wellington so much, and I really hope I can get some interviews and start getting back to everyday life in the city I love, soon.

I have officially lost the seven kilograms that I'd put on over the last year.  This is definitely the direction I want to be heading in, and I'm so proud of myself for the effort I've made and the hard work I've put in.  I've set my next 'loss goal', and am confident that I can get there in a reasonable amount of time.

I have posted all of the things that I've been too lazy and unmotivated to post for months, nationally.  Anybody that knows me, also knows how bad I am at sending mail.  Now that the locals are all done, I am making a start on the stuff I've been carrying around for the last 12 - 24 months for my international girls.  I suck - but luckily, they are wonderful understanding women who love me, regardless of my (many) flaws.

While these few things may seem minor, it is a definite start to getting my life organised again after so many years of chaos.  Changing yourself and your life is never easy.  It takes lots of work and a long time, so I'm making sure I encourage myself to keep at it by celebrating EVERY victory - no matter how small.

Since it's Tuesday, it also means it's photo day.  I'll leave you with this picture I took a week or so ago at Glinks Gully.  I was in the back of a friends truck alternating between vodka and snoozing.  It was just one of those peaceful relaxing moments...


Monday, January 30, 2012

There's Nothing Like a Deadline, to Make You Procrastinate Even More!

Today I've managed to waste several hours sitting in front of the computer, doing anything (and everything) other than reformatting my CV.  This is a problem, as the 'Powers That Be' require it today.

Oh dear...

Naturally, I realise what the time is, and in a blind panic I jump straight to my blog and start typing.  I believe the kids used to call that "Epic Fail" (I have no idea what they call it these days).

So in a desperate attempt at motivating myself, today's photo is of my favourite "alone spot" in Wellington. This is a photo I took a couple of years ago of the place I used to sit when I needed to collect my thoughts, think, or just enjoy some sun on a rare summer day.



Friday, January 27, 2012

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This isn't the first time I have attempted to blog.  Once upon a time this blog was dubbed "The House of Hazel Caine", and while it started out entertaining, it quickly deteriorated into a self-indulgent pity-fest that I eventually deleted.

I currently have three followers - two, who are wonderful women I've known "virtually" for a few years now, and one - a fellow Northland Bogan who I once worked with.  I'm not entirely sure whether any of these followers actually read my posts, but what I've come to realise is that having people praise me or tear me down is no longer an issue for me.  I simply enjoy it.

I enjoy writing whatever comes to mind.  I enjoy talking to this electronic "Dear Diary" medium.  I enjoy celebrating my life, instead of wishing it was something else...

And that's all I can ask for everybody else - that they find something they enjoy.  When I sing, I always tell myself: "You don't have to be good at something in order to love it.", and I really think that's relevant now. Maybe my posts are an insult to good grammar, and I'm overly fond of the coma, but who cares - I'm having a blast.

Moe reckons that every time I post, I offload a little of the drama I've been carrying around.  Maybe he's right, but whatever.

All I know for sure is that I've seen a lot of films, and heard a lot of music, and I want to share them with the world.

So tonight, I'll leave you with this little "feel good" song of mine.  I'm a huge fan of The Cure, and this is one of the songs I blast whenever I feel FANTASTIC!!!  I hope it makes you smile, just as much as it makes me.






Wednesday, January 25, 2012

"Still Crazy" - If You Haven't Seen It, Then You Really Should.

"History teaches us that men behave wisely... once they've exhausted all other alternatives."  - Hughie, Still Crazy


Every once in a while I'll stumble across a movie that aims straight for my heart, and then fires.  A few years back (and then a couple more) I was working at one of the many call centres that I have worked in, and would kill the hours by talking to the English guy that sat next to me.  Most of our conversations involved me screaming at him to shut up while he did Borat vocal impressions, and tormented me with Chuck Norris jokes.  However, when these grew tiresome for him the focus would turn to Nick Hornby novels, music, and movies.

When the subject of Bill Nighy came up one day, I began raving about his brilliant role in the film "Love Actually".  His portrayal of Billy Mack - an aged rocker, desperate to reclaim the fame and glory he once had was (and still is) legendary in my eyes.  



And then Mr Englishman said the magic words:  "Oh, so I suppose you've seen Still Crazy then?".  What?  Pffft - never heard of it.  Mr Englisman felt that simply wouldn't do...  The next day I arrived at work to find a DVD sitting on my desk.  


I was beyond stunned that I'd never heard of this film before.  The cast was packed full of favourites of mine - Billy Connolly, Timothy Spall, Stephen Rea and musician Jimmy Nail.    Billy Nighy, of course was there on the cover looking like Rock 'n Roll leftovers, and it had even been nominated for Golden Globe awards.  Mr Englishman was right to be appalled by my ignorance.  I took the DVD home that night, and instantly fell in love.  This movie was everything about the 1970's rock genre that I love!

Strange Fruit are a band on the verge of global stardom in the 1970's, when their singer dies of a drug overdose.  The band - determined to carry on, replace him with Ray Simms (Nighy), though their constant fighting and theatrics come to blows during a festival performance when their stage is hit by lightening.  This ends the band, and they all go their separate ways.

Twenty years later, Tony (Rea) is recognised by the son of the man who had set up the festival, and Tony decides to round up the band and see if they can have another go.  They've all fallen into the mundane world of "regular life".  Marriage, divorce, mediocre jobs - they've all given up on the idea of becoming the legendary band that they almost were.  European tour?  Sure, why not.

Accompanied by Hughie (Connolly) - their original roadie, and their ever faithful manager, Karen they set off to see if they're able to bury the past and grab hold of the second chance that they're finally being offered.

Look for a very young Hans Matheson (Sherlock Holmes, Clash of the Titans) playing Luke - the bands new guitarist, and Bruce Robinson (Oscar Nominee for Best Screenplay for the 1984 film "The Killing Fields") in one of his rare acting appearances. 

This movie is a brilliant mixture of hilarity, sadness, regret, and rejuvenation, and is accompanied by a fantastic soundtrack that will leave you feeling good, and humming for days.  Watch it.  Right now.